“What is a purposeful life?” Notable psychologist, Erik Erikson, developed a theory of psychosocial development explaining why humans ask this question in the fifth stage of his theory: Identity vs. Role Confusion (age 12-18 years old). During this stagedescribed as emotional and filled with I cannot count how many times I have asked myself this question. It is a commonly asked question among people of all ages and of ethnic and cultural backgrounds. It is also a fundamental enduring question of humanity that seeks to understand the purpose of our existence. I heard this question far too often in my senior year of High School as my classmates and I prepared to start our young lives in society. I asked myself this question because I felt an …show more content…
Working for the sake of yourself is looking after your personal well-being. Taking care of your health, financial stability, family, or schooling, are some of the many ways one can do to take care of their well-being and be happy. To work for the sake of others is to have the compassion to help and care for others. Some may question whether one could just live a life working for the sake of oneself or live working for the sake of others, only. The answer is no. Lao-Tzu’s second verse of Tao Te Ching describes the co-dependence of opposites, saying that “All the world knows beauty but if that becomes beautiful this becomes ugly…” If a person were to live their life working wholly for the sake of others, they become arrogant-minded because they put caring for people above themselves. The arrogance stems from the lack of respect and care they put on themselves. If a person were to live a life working wholly for their own sake, would become blinded and desensitize to other people’s feelings and even become accustomed to using people for their own benefit, creating hostile relationships with people. An important aspect of taking care of both your own well-being and for others is to work with a selfless attitude, non-attachment. In the Eastern text, Bhagavad Gita, states: “They who work selfishly for results are miserable.” (41) An example to further explain this idea, consider two authors, Writer One who writes for fame and be awarded Pulitzer Prizes, whereas Writer Two, writes to inspire and move the hearts of people through writing. Their profession is the same, but their attitudes and motivation to write is completely different. One is attached to awards and the other is not. Writer One who is attached to the award will be miserable if an award is not presented for their book. If Writer Two, who is not attached to the reward does not receive an award for their book, Writer Two will be unmoved
All my life I’ve been trying to find my purpose. I always knew that my purpose in life was to help people, but I didn’t know how I really wanted to accomplish this. Upon graduating high school I was confused
On page 434 in our text, it tells us that according to Erikson’s theory of identity versus identity confusion, the primary goal of adolescence is to find one’s own identity. I feel like I succeeded this goal when I started high school in 8th grade, the girls that I once considered my best friends in elementary school chose to follow the drug crowd. So, I made new friends. I chose not to follow my drug crowd friends due to desiring my parents, teachers, and peers approval. This is when I learned that my parent’s beliefs and values had an effect on me. Page 434 also tells us that identity achievement is when adolescences reconsider their goals and values due to their parents. I grew to respect my parents’ values which made me have a desire for
All human beings share the innate attraction to gather in groups and fear alienation. It seems that as humanity has developed, so has our global community. For example, what do modern-day New York and Ancient Egypt share in common? These places represent large gatherings of individuals who came together to find protection and comfort in numbers. However, one downfall to this human instinct is that in many grand communities that span the globe today, the importance of the individual is often lost. Every life is like a drop in the ocean of the earth’s seven billion people. However, I believe a truly purposeful life is one that has carved out its own stream as an individual while also contributing to the larger ocean, its source. My purpose, as
A common person who has yet to find a purpose feels like a lost soul who is drowned by social isolation, lost in a sea of faces, and unable to make a difference. Sometimes, these people adapt to mind-numbing and time-wasting hobbies, such as days of watching television, playing video games, or anything else to distract them from their real life. They watch commercials where people are attractive and have an excess of money, and they want to be that person, because they believe that 's what they were meant to be. Then they work, and work, and keep working jobs they do not fully enjoy. They receive money, but
The Angela Duckworth book Grit includes a chapter entitled “Purpose” which examines the different processes people go through in order to find their purpose in life. Throughout the course of the chapter, an eclectic mix of stories are told and explained as to why people believe their story has helped define the word purpose. The chapter explains that one’s definition of the word purpose varies by their life experiences
Erikson (1968) believed that the primary psychosocial task of adolescence is the formation of identity. Therefore, he called developmental conflict identity versus confusion. There are various contributing factors to the formation of identity such as cognitive development, personality as well as schools and communities etc. The onset of puberty during adolescents leads to newfound cognitive skills and physical abilities (Kroger,2004) . In addition, increased independence and autonomy leads to greater interactions with communities and schools etc. according to Erikson (1968), this allows the individual to explore relationships and ideologies. He gave particular attention to the career domain, starting “In general, it is the ability to settle
Rooted in philosophical and religious contemplation, questions on human’s existence and life’s purpose, or existentialism questions, is the question as old as the human race. In trying to find the answers to the questions , humans have approached them from different disciplines; from scientific theories, to philosophical, theological, and spiritual explanations. Unlike adults who may wonder and talk about such concept in intense complexity, young children begin to inquire about such concepts and try to seek answers within their own capacity and their experience. At times, their position in the society as the youngest members of the community complicate their search for answers. Their inquiries and questions are often taken lightly
Throughout the world, many people believe that God created mankind through an unhurried act of free will and with certain ideas in mind. In addition, God already had a clear understanding of what he was creating before humanity existed. However, one could argue that humanity was created with no clear purpose in mind. Therefore, if we were shaped with no clear purpose in mind, why were we created in the first place? Our existence as individuals is eminent, but how we perceive the world around us varies from individual to individual. Whether we were created with a purpose or not, we have to examine the authenticity of our very existence with an existential perspective, where we will then learn how to grasp a better understanding of our purpose. Furthermore, we exist as individuals that are capable of having multiple versions
Identity versus Role Confusion is between the ages of twelve and eighteen years of age involving peer groups. Inappropriate and ineffective parenting can impede one's psychosocial development through negative adult influences. Adults can change the lives of children in many ways. Children will often demonstrate what they have learned from the effect of influences and examples. If there are adverse impacts through parenting style, children will lead by example.
The search for one’s purpose and identity in the world never truly ends. However, the
Nothing captivates mankind more than the exploration of purpose. Of all the difficulties man faces, the most elusive is defining what it means to be human. It seems that no two philosophers have the same answer, but that does not stop man from seeking one. The philosophy that appears most appropriate for the charge is existentialism, whose primary concern is questioning the purpose for human existence. Two of the most ardent existentialist philosophers are Kierkegaard and Nietzsche. Both see the established idea of man as something to be challenged and overcome. They have attempted to set aside all assumptions and concentrate on defining the reason that man exists in the world. Despite their
The world is one magnificent place and each and every person was put on it to do something and to be something. To find your place in this world is not easy, in fact it is immensely difficult. There are some people who figure out who they are and what they were born to do by the time they graduate highschool, and others who die before they are able to figure this out. There aren’t step-by-step directions that tell you how to live fully and how to make the most out of life. It is an open path that can be taken a number of different ways. Out of the seven billion people in this world, you were born to be someone, not born to try and live another person's life, but to live your own in the distinct ways that describe who you are. It is the way you choose to live that is important. It shows the direction you want to go in order to be the best you can be. I may only be seventeen years young, but I have quite the understanding of life that I would like to share with you.
Every person has pondered or will at one time ponder the question of their purpose in life. This is simply because purpose is the sole reason for existence, so a person must contemplate the question in order to go about their days. And everybody that has gone looking for the answer, has come back empty handed. The universe allows for life but it doesn’t leave the slightest clue as to why it was provided. It’s true that if a person looks to the universe, they won’t find any answer, but what they will find is endless amount of interpretations. And in this way the universe can take a person on an introspective journey to find their own interpretation. Once a person can find their own interpretation
For a human to discover a purpose in life, it requires them to open their mind to a variety of ideologies such as discovering themselves and knowing who they are, doing something they love and making a difference in someone’s life or society overall. They will face several obstacles on the journey of self-enlightenment. Man who is in search of a purpose, has no peace of mind. After achieving objectives, a human will remain dissatisfied and believes that he has no purpose at all in life. In The Stranger, The Invisible Man and 2081, we see characters trying to find their purpose in life as well as their identity. Therefore, their search for their identity and purpose never ends.
What is the purpose of our life? Why do we exist? How do we treat our existence? Every individual has different reasons or explanation why they exist. Some says that they do live because God created them. Some will say that they are living for the purpose of completing the promise of procreation. There are many reasons why we are living in this world. The individual’s awareness of purpose of their life is a paramount mystery for every individual. Existentialists connotes that man exists first and eventually spends their lifetime changing their nature. Additionally, this primarily concerns with finding the self and life’s meaning by freewill, choice and personal responsibility, which by searching through their life decisions and choices are made using experiences, beliefs