Explore Jane Austen’s attitude to marriage in Pride and Prejudice
Looking at the social, historical and cultural context
In the 19th century when Austen wrote ‘Pride and Prejudice’, the way in which marriage was viewed was very different. It would have been expected of a young woman to find a ‘suitable’ partner for marriage before they were thirty, as after this they could be seen as an embarrassment to their family. By suitable, it does not mean in the way in which marriage is viewed today. Today marriage is seen as an expression of deep love and respect for another person. In Austen’s time, a ‘good’ marriage was seen to be one where wealth and social status of the man and woman were socially suitable. There was very
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Each couple display compatibility, understanding as well as similarity in their characters. Many characters at different points in the novel remark on Jane and
Bingley, and how well suited they are. Elizabeth comments that Bingley is a, ‘sweet-tempered, amiable, charming man.’ She realises that Jane and Bingley are becoming infatuated with one another. ‘The train of agreeable reflections, which her observations gave birth to, made her perhaps almost as happy as Jane.’ This reflects on their compatibility. The other ‘ideal state’ of marriage, which is maybe more so than Jane and Bingley, is seen in Darcy and Elizabeth. Their compatibility is blinded to each of them because of Darcy’s pride and Elizabeth’s prejudice. As the book progresses, both characters manage to overcome these character flaws and various other obstacles and eventually realise their love for one another as their compatibility and understanding is increasingly revealed to the reader, ‘It was a union that must have been to the advantage of both.’ Darcy and Elizabeth’s similarities lie in their levels of intelligence, dedication to friends and their stance on expressing their opinions openly.
Regardless of what anybody said about their relationship, including Mrs. Bennet and the superior Lady Catherine, they ignored these various warnings. Lady Catherine mainly commented on
Elizabeth’s social inferiority to hers and her nephews.
In Pride and Prejudice Author Jane Austen claims that marriage should be between a man and women who love each other equally. Austen's disgust of Marriage and decorum in British culture is written through the eyes of main the main character in Pride and Prejudice, Miss Elizabeth Bennett. It is sad to think that marriage could be bought or in Elizabeth Bennett’s case not afforded. Marriage shouldn’t be the only measure of worth for women. Someone should not feel “repugnance” for a marriage due to situation.
Austen’s Pride and Prejudice is well noted for its ability to question social norms. Most importantly, Austen explores the institution of marriage, as it was in her time, a time where many married for security rather than love. Her characters Elizabeth and Charlotte are renowned even more for their outspoken nature and different views on marriage. Though both Elizabeth and Charlotte yearn for a happy marriage, Charlotte has a more pragmatic and mundane approach while Elizabeth is more romantic and daring with her actions. Through the romantic involvements of both Elizabeth and Charlotte, Austen shows that happiness in marriage is not entirely a matter of chance, but is instead contingent on an accurate evaluation of self and others
The progress between Elizabeth’s and Darcy’s relationship, in Jane Austen’s novel Pride and Prejudice (1813) illustrates and explores several the key themes in the novel. Their relationship highlights class expectations, pride and prejudice, and marriage, and how they play a major role in determining the course of their association. These are outlined through their first prejudiced dislike of each other when they first meet, the stronger feelings for Elizabeth that develop on Darcy’s side, her rejection in Darcy’s first proposal, then her change of opinion and lastly the mutual love they form for one another. Pride and Prejudice is set up as a satire, commenting on human idiocy, and Jane Austen
The path to marriage initiates in the very first paragraph of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. This courtship novel begins with the premise that “a single man in possession of a fortune must be in want of a wife” (pg. 5) Throughout the competition for the single men, characters are naturally divided by the norms of their social standing. However, the use of social conventions and civility further divides them. The characters in need of the most moral reform remain unchanged, leaving a path for the reformers to travel to each other’s company. Austen uses the stagnant characters and their flaws as a line that needs to cross in order to achieve a dynamic marriage of mutual respect.
During the course of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice (1813) The protagonist Elizabeth Bennet receives two marriage proposals from her cousin Mr. Collins and the prideful gentleman Mr. Darcy. Both proposals serve as commentary on view regarding marriage from the Regency era, with Collin’s methodical and satirically written monologue encouraging the reader to condemn the traditionalist view that marriage should be based on social and economic assets, whilst Darcy’s more emotionally charged but still belittling exclamation invites the reader to consider the more modernist view of marriage being centered around love. The propositions serve as a comparison between society’s idea of marriage being more akin to a business transaction and Austen’s more romantic ideals.
Jane Austen knowingly stated the problems in society with a particular emphasis on the harshness of the culture towards women. During her time little girls were raised being taught about the dire circumstances of a woman who did not marry well. Little girls were taught to be multi-lingual, artistic, cultured, musically inclined, and other inconsequential skills. These skills were required to make a good match for a wealthy man, which was their only goal in life. This is furthermore expressed, as Sheehan states , “Familial aspirations, coupled with women’s increased dependence on marriage for financial survival, made courtship a central focus of women’s lives” (n.pag.). Society was entirely driven by marriage. Jane Austen noticed this
In the novel, Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen asserts that a happy marriage comes not from the compliance with social conventions, but rather from the compatibility between the personalities of two individuals. The interclass marriage of Mr. and Mrs. Bennet, and the expected "intraclass" marriage of Lady Catherine's daughter stand as a foil to the true happiness in the interclass marriage of Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy. A lack of affection, esteem and congruity between the Bennet's, and likewise between Miss de Bourgh and Mr. Darcy, results in an unsuccessful marriage and a potentially unsuccessful marriage, respectively, while the paradigm of these qualities between Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy generate a successful relationship. By illustrating
Pride and Prejudice, written by Jane Austen, presents a case of almost lost love, while presenting characters of extreme diversity. Love, marriage, and the views of opposite sexes are common outlooks presented in Volume I of Jane Austen’s novel. One of the main characters that takes readers through a loop of different emotions is Mr. Darcy. Mr. Darcy is a wealthy gentlemen by birth. He has women flaunting over him at all times, so when Elizabeth gives him the cold shoulder, he is incredibly taken by surprise. His view on love starts out very materialistic, but slowly as his relationship with Elizabeth grows, we see a change in his behavior. Marriage, in Mr. Darcy’s opinion, should be kept within social classes and because of his wealth and wide range of women to pick from, his partner in marriage must possess every, almost unobtainable characteristic in which he admires. Darcy views women as objects, instead of human beings. He is more worried about what they have, instead of who they are. Although he seems set in his ways, readers start to slowly see a shift in these views as the volume comes to an end.
Marriage is an important theme in the novel ‘‘Pride and Prejudice’’ by Jane Austin and it is portrayed in many different ways. Even the very first line displays this theme, as it says ‘It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife,’ which is said by the narrator. This is a clever opening as it brings you straight into the main theme of marriage, while also introducing the subtle theme of satire. The irony of the line is that the truth, and the plot of the book, turns out to be a complete reversal of this phrase, with the point being that it is a single woman of little fortune who must be in want of a husband,
Jane Austen, author of Pride and Prejudice, wrote in an era where considerations of social class and economic status were central to the institution of marriage. This notion is demonstrated throughout the novel by exploring character’s ideas and definitions regarding love and marriage. The main character, Elizabeth, defies almost all stereotypes of early 19th century women in England. She, unlike Charlotte and Jane, believes that marriage is based around true love rather than economic status and financial stability. The first chapter in the novel provides the audience with an overall idea on how men and women view love and marriage when Jane Austen writes, “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.” Throughout the book, it is evident that women (and some men) limit themselves on who they should marry based on economic and family background.
Pride and Prejudice is a classic literary work made the fame out of writer Jane Austen. For the past two centuries since the first edition in 1813, this is always the bedside pillow of many generations of women. The name of the book in the charts of literary works of all time is still to be found. This novel of love and values unfolds in class-conscious England of the late 18th century. The famous first line of the novel : "It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife" seems like a good kick-start to quickly outline the skeleton of the plot, and also introduce the author's irony, which is well structured throughout the entire novel (1). Pride and prejudice are pictured surrounding the story of how marriage was obviously more crucial for young women especially those are in the lower class. Despite the cruel prejudice, love finds ways to bridge the social gaps and wins over pride.
What should it take to achieve true love? Are there aspects of ourselves that should be put aside for love to prevail? Can a person be defined by the pride or prejudices that they hold? These issues are topics swirling through Jane Austen’s iconic novel, Pride and Prejudice. Early 19th century England is a time where marriage and love are complicated ordeals, commonly squandered by the issues of class. A family like the Bennets, with not too much money to brag about, will try its best to marry all of its five daughters to well-off men in happy marriages. But love never runs its course completely smoothly as learned by the strong-willed Elizabeth Bennet and her wealthy suitor, Mr.Darcy. The pair is filled with pride and prejudices, creating barriers that are hard to break down. The question continuously pursues whether these pride and prejudices will stop them from ever creating a mutual bond. Can love survive when Elizabeth and Darcy cannot let these factors go? In Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen conveys the idea that pride must be put aside and prejudices ignored in order to obtain genuine love.
Each individual in this world surely have a dream to get married once they grow up, especially with the one they love. Even though today’s society accepts unmarried relationship where couples live together and have babies out of wedlock, in the end marriage is what they hope for as a symbol of their relationship. Clearly, marriage is a must in human’s life. This necessity influences humans to create stories that end with marriage and live happily ever after. Pride and Prejudice, written by Jane Austen, is also one of those stories that fulfils this criterion. In this novel, Jane Austen described various marriages which differ from each other. Instead of love, there are marriages that are
Darcy and Mr. Bingley, respectively. By describing how each family’s bias of the girls almost separated both pairs and kept them from finding happiness in marriage, Austen highlights the flaws associated with ideas against feminist criticism; Mr. Darcy’s family did not like Elizabeth because she refused to adhere to the social norms and instead demonstrated her independence and strength by acting of her own free will, despite her lack of a sophisticated upbringing. It was for this same reason moreover, that Mr. Darcy was able to transform his sexism and conceited nature into a fair, unprejudiced mindset for the sake of Elizabeth's happiness. By analyzing the story of Pride and Prejudice as a whole, we are able to filter the novel’s impressive portrayal of feminist criticism through the story’s satirical sense of limited choices a woman is given in her life for happiness, and then reading through instances in which Elizabeth showcases her independence and free-willed nature to discover her own happiness both romantically and internally by adhering to the idea that women should be given the same opportunity to fight, work, and discover happiness as a man is
Today we live in a world where it’s okay to not get married, but in Pride and Prejudice that is not the case. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen is a fictional novel that focuses on marriage and love. The biggest issue in this novel is that women feel the need to get married and don’t feel like they can live a good life without getting married.