I have read that everybody would get one’s own quarter-life crisis, and I partly experienced it when I was around 17. It was quite soon compared to my peers, which make me felt more insecured and doubtful about my future more than ever. But somehow, I found it lucky since by overcoming this period, I knew exactly what I have to do to get my dream – becoming an interpreter.
I am confident to describe myself as positive and resilient. Since I was a kid, I have been reminded about not giving up my dreams almost everyday. But after entering high school, while many friends started living with their passions of singing, dancing or painting, I realised that I did not know what the biggest dream of mine was. Thus, I determined to believe in myself
Late adulthood should be a time in a person's life where they feel fulfilled. They can look back on their memories and be happy with the way they have lived their life. Now, too many elderly people are not satisfied and look at this stage as depressing. Most fear death of either a loved one or for themselves. This topic is interesting to me because elderly people should make the best of their last stage of life. This topic discusses about getting older, the life changes that they go through physically, emotionally, and mentally. We should know more about it so that we can help our family and friends get through one of the best, yet toughest part of our mortal life.
Midlife crisis is defined as a period of emotional turmoil in middle age (40-60 years) characterized by a strong desire for change (Argosy University Online, 2015). According to Tergesen (2014), a continuing national study of midlife funded by the National Institute on Aging, reports that 26% of adults ages 25 to 75 reported having had a midlife crisis (Tergesen, 2014).Among respondents who are 50-plus, slightly more, 35%, say they've had one, but in the group that includes 30 and 40 age groups, only about half reported having a change triggered by inner turmoil and angst, associated with getting older, the link included things such as, job loss and divorce, which are not unique to midlife (Tergesen, 2014). Many of the participants in her
For this paper, I had the privilege of interviewing one of my friend’s grandmother. Her name is Jamie Hansen and she is a healthy and active 68-year-old grandmother. In the beginning of the phone call, I asked some basic background knowledge questions such as how many grandkids she has and if she was a widower or not. I found out that she and her husband are happily married and that she has six grandchildren. As I got to know her more I started asking questions that pertained to the interview aspect of social theories. I figured out that Mrs. Hansen’s responses led to an application of the continuity and socioemotional selective theories.
One factor that I would like to change from the Life simple check list is my weight. I know that it is important for me to lose weight, not just for looks, but also to prevent many health issues such as; diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, etc. I do not want to have any health issues down the road because of my weight I know that I can prevent it by simply eating healthier and exercising. This would not only help out with my overall health issues, but also raise my self-esteem and evaluate my mood. That is why it is so important for me to lose this weight for a lot of great reasons.
A midlife crisis can affect both men and women. And it's effects can be pretty devastating for their spouses because they end up bearing the brunt of it.
Nowadays, people give up easily due to the obstacles that life gives them. However, when they dream, they’re most likely to succeed and have a better outcome. Having your mind on something, helps you to accomplish greater things; in addition, negativity isn’t going to help to get there.Moreover, when people are positive that they can do anything, they go through it all.
The circumstances that I understand to be difficult for millennials during their quarter-life crisis is that the belief that will be the best and make a significant impact in this world. The combination of the parents and the importance set on higher education coupled with the positive reinforcement that the millennial can achieve greatness as long as they work hard can be taxing. This can be a daunting task after the individual graduate’s college with a bachelor’s degree and the job prospects are not what they want to conquer the world. Philippe stated (p. 11),
The late humorist, Erma Bombeck (1927-1996) once said, “Children make your life important.” I wonder if, when Ms. Bombeck made this claim, she had young children still at home. When my children were young, they needed much more of my time, which created in me a feeling of importance; however, as my children became adults, they needed less of my time. When they were young, my home was always busy and noisy, and I loved it. As the kids grew up, began working, became more independent, and eventually started moving out, I was left with extra time on my hands. With fewer people in a home, there were certainly fewer dishes to wash and less laundry to run. A few years ago, when this transition began, less of my time was spent cleaning, cooking, and rearing children. With more free time, I had a tendency to worry, and I felt lonely and sort of stuck in the house. I noticed my anxiety levels creeping up. I looked forward to weekends when my husband would be home with me and I had someone to socialize with. Enter my mid-life crisis! What does one do to combat the effect of a mid-life crisis? One does something reckless, of course. My recklessness took the form of riding motorcycles. When I decided to take up motorcycle riding, my initial thought was that I could save money on fuel for daily errands I might run, and I also thought it would be pretty cool to be a biker
In today's time the age for which men and women are getting married and having children has risen to extreme highs and the numbers are still climbing. This occurrence affects a certain group known as the twentysomthings of today's culture.
The information in the article compares fairly well with the text book information on midlife crisis. The first comparison is that the words' midlife crisis doesn’t really add up to effect our lives much as bad a crisis sounds but more than simple thoughtful changes. Day-to-day stress doesn't add up to a midlife crisis, however. In fact, says Almeida, these stressors may even have a positive effect (Clay, 2003, p. 36). Despite the lingering belief that middle adulthood is a time of stagnation, crisis and dissatisfaction, we have seen that people continue to grow and change during this period (Feldman, 2014, pp 533). We also saw that to characterize this as a time of crisis is to overstate the negative and ignore the positive aspects of the
Throughout my entire life, any adult I have ever talked to has always said to me, “Savannah, as long as you follow your dreams and have your heart invested into whatever you do, you can do anything.” For many years as a child and a pre-teen, I have pondered the meaning of this piece of advice. As I sit in my backyard writing my last essay of my senior year, I finally know what it means.
People should never give up on their dream or on anything in life because you know what, as you think about it if you don’t make mistakes, not trying, giving up too quick, and looking for a easy way out of things doesn’t make you human. Give yourself strength and face your dreams don’t let fear hold you back, that is why you should never give up on your dreams and keep dreaming because the sky's the limit when it comes to
In conclusion, late adulthood does come with some challenges, but there are services out there to help. The body is in decline but that does not make aging a bad horrible thing to be in fear of. One thing to keep in mind, is that exercise is the key to making your life so much better as you age; it can even come down to life or death. Another key for late adulthood is to make sure you’re keeping up with your health as much as possible and keeping your friends and family in close contact. Relationships are not only key to being healthy but as being
In today's society millenials are often viewed by the media as selfish, irresposible and lazy. On social media sites such as facebook , twitter, and instagram millenials are viewed as having some uncommon behavior. Older generations such as baby boomers are viewed as the opposite of millenials. After the second world war the job opportunities started to expand. Statisics show that unemployment was around 7% throughout the baby boomers era. In the present day unemployment rates are around 5% and rising. I agree with this claim because I believe that the new technology such as smartphones , mass media and networking are revolutionizing the way millenials mentally think and their social behavior. The advancement in the development of technology has created new ways to connect people
As you get older, it can be tough to remember what being in your twenties was really like. Not how it looks in your employees’ carefree Instagram photos or your own old photo albums (remember those?), but how it really felt in the moment.