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The Similarities Between Fraternity And Sorority

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Sometimes they emerge a new, mature, and dedicated person or it could crush someone mentally and spiritually due to their experiences within the organization. Every fraternity and sorority is different. Contrary to popular belief hazing has not come to an end, and it is still implemented in hundreds of schools. There are different ways of hazing, which I think different cultures handle differently. Sororities haze by mentally and verbally abusing their pledges. I have friends that have been through the process and they have called me crying with stories about the degrading things that their “big sisters” said to them. I do know that in sororities they make a point of telling their pledges that they will tear them down to build them back up. The tearing down part consist of bullying and breaking the pledge down mentally, making her feel worthless, and then slowly they build them back up with compliments and sisterhood; so that the pledge realizes that she is a new woman due to her sorority and her sisters which is where the lifetime bonds come in at. Fraternities are built upon masculinity. It is a man’s game, and it is quite ignorant. Who can sleep with the most girls? Who can drink the most beers? Who can do the most push-ups? In addition, who can withstand the torture and abuse that it takes to be apart of the brotherhood? As I mentioned earlier, I believe that different cultures express their masculinity in different ways. Black men in the black community have no wriggle

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