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The Role of Women in Chinese Culture Essay

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The Role of Women in Chinese Culture In traditional Chinese culture, women were inferior to men. They were not allowed to make any decisions concerning their families. Their only purpose in life was to stay home and take care of the households. "A woman's duties are to cook the five grains, heat the wine, look after her parents-in-law, make clothes, and that's all! ...she must follow the `three submissions.' When she is young, she must submit to her parents. After her marriage, she must submit to her husband. When she is widowed, she must submit to her son. These are the rules of propriety." ("The Mother Of Mencius", p.34) That's the principle that was followed in traditional China. Some of the examples of this are discussed in this …show more content…

After marriage, women were to take the husband's ancestors as hers. Thus, a marriage had a purpose of continuing the ancestral line and raising the status of the family. Only men had a right to divorce their wives. If a man was not satisfied with his wife for any reason, it was enough for him to divorce her. If a couple had any children, the husband took them after divorce, not the wife. The woman would have to go back to her parents' house and even that was too much of a shame for her family, and often, they wouldn't take her back so she had no other choice but to become a nun. In case of a husband's death, the woman was to live with her in-laws. She was not allowed to remarry. There are cases when women committed suicide instead of getting married again. Such case is described in the reading by Lu Xun "Chaste Woman Ni." While there was such a strict view on a woman's right to have more than one husband, men were allowed to have as many concubines as they could afford. In fact, eventually, men's social status was determined not only by the size of their property but also by the amount of the concubines and servants that they had. Women did many things to get men's approval. An example of that is foot binding, when mothers bound the daughter's feet to make them look smaller. It caused great pain and diseases. However, it was

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